February is National Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month

Our lives continue to endure the effects of the Covid-19 pandemic for nearly a full year now. The fear, the protection, the stress and the isolation it causes for many is also affecting relationships of every kind. Romantic relationships are a common part of adolescence. However, not all of these relationships are healthy.

Teen Dating Violence (TDV) is a term that covers a wide range of behaviors including physical and emotional harm, as well as stalking. With constant use of technology, teenagers are also vulnerable to cyberstalking, which includes unwanted contact via email or social media and tracking software used by various apps. TDV is also a public health problem that does not end with adolescence. Research supported by the National Institute of Justice has shown that victims of TDV, are likely to experience or perpetrate, some form of relationship abuse as an adult.

TDV is preventable. Supporting the development of friendly, respectful, and nonviolent relationships can help reduce the occurrence of TDV and prevent its harmful effects. Youth should be learning the skills needed, how to manage feelings and how to communicate, prior to the Teen years in order to create and maintain healthy relationships.

If YOU are a Victim of this type of Crime and need Support or Assistance, call (508) 364-3981. Mashpee Wampanoag Tribal Victim Services wants to stress the importance of this awareness.  We also recommend the following Resource: Centers for Disease Control & Prevention (CDC) developed Dating Matters: Strategies to Promote Healthy Teen Relationships to stop teen dating violence before it starts. It focuses on teaching 11-14-year-olds healthy relationships skills and includes sections for kids, parents, schools, and neighborhoods. Visit their Dating Matters website to learn more.